Suzi Godson

My ex was quite passive in bed, so I always took the lead and often relied on fantasies to climax. My new partner is much more passionate and dominant — what I always fantasised about — but my orgasm has deserted me. Everything else is so good. I'd hate f... See more

I'm a 40-year-old man in a pattern where I meet a woman, we go through the enthralling sex-all-the-time stage, then — be it several months or a year later — I feel trapped and my libido vanishes. Once the relationship ends, I'm overcome by failure and sha... See more

I'm a woman in my 30s and was single for a long time before dating my current partner. Before I met him, I watched pornography on my own - a lot. Now that I am with someone, I struggle to orgasm. It's not a problem I had in previous relationships. How can... See more

My husband recently lost his job, making his long-term struggle with his mental health even harder. I have always tried to understand his battle with depression, but his mood affects our sex life and intimacy. I feel more like his therapist than his wife.... See more

Sex File: My insomnia is interfering with my late-night sex life Sleep is fundamental to well-being, and if insomnia is creating so much anxiety that you are limiting the way you live, you need to do something about it. There are pharmacological and thera... See more